Her love lacks life

Dear Abby:

You certainly opened a Pandora's box when you ran those letters from women who said sex was messy, sometimes painful, not worth the trouble and that they could live without it.

I feel sure I have a better-thanaverage husband, but men are inept as lovers. (I am not a lesbian, and I do not have any such tendencies.)

Men do not begin to understand women, psychologically or sexually. Their attitudes about it sex selfish

sex are..

Men make women feel as though there is something wrong with them if they're tired or have a headache or just don't feel like it when the men do.

If men knew as little about their jobs or their golf game, they wouldn't be able to earn a living or get off the first tee.

Worse, they won't listen, read or take suggestions. And if their sex life is a flop, they say that it's their woman's fault.

Disappointed, Disgusted, Desperate and Dead

Dear DDD and Dead:

Your husband may be guilty as

Dear Abby

charged, but don't put all men in the same bag.

My mail tells me that some men are wonderfully competent lovers. They're considerate, unselfish, tender and willing to read, listen and take criticism.

All men are not alike any more. than all women are. (Thank heavens.)